Thank you to everyone who is part of this venture. I have met some very nice people on the site and have found a good friend. Long may it continue! I recommend the site to all friends who might appreciate meeting this kind of thoughtful person.

Hi - I just wanted to say thank you. I met my fiance through BluesMatch. We got engaged earlier this year and will be married in June next year.

I should be grateful if you would cancel my membership - hopefully not needed now having met someone through the site. I've met the love of my life on this site, and I can't thank you enough. Deleting my profile now, but for the happiest of reasons! I'm leaving because I'm delighted to say that I find myself in a lovely relationship and am therefore no longer looking for a partner.

I've largely enjoyed the site. I'm very happy indeed with my time on the site and send my very best wishes with all involved in making it a success! I am no longer looking for a partner, which is the reason I am leaving.

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If you have a question about anything else, please write to us using the Contact Us page. members' login. BluesMatch - Dating for Oxbridge and the Ivy League. I have met someone really wonderful on your site - I'll let you know how it works out I've met someone on BluesMatch who I think is going to be very special. Thank you to the team. I am very pleased to tell you that I have met a lovely man through the site!

I'm deleting my profile because I hope I've found my "for-keeps" man! So thank you! I've found someone through your website who is very sweet who makes me happy. I am glad to report that I have found a delightful new partner on Blues Match! I have now found my perfect partner.

I am grateful to your site for having introduced me to her. I have entered a relationship with a woman on this site, so I guess it worked! I have found a lovely man from your website, which is brilliant. Thank you very much. I've met someone on this site.

Thank you - it's been a positive experience. I have happily met and am having a great time with someone I met on bluesmatch! I met someone through your website. We're getting married! I had 2 interviews that went very well but I didn't get the job, I just had a third recently and am waiting to see if I do get an offer.

It feels like no one else wants me and I'm stuck where I'm at and not sure I want to be. It's not my ideal role. You're so sweet for sharing. I hope you get that job if you want it.

As the first person to reply to this post told me about dating interviewing is also a numbers game. The more you have the more your chances. You were blessed in not having to interview much to get your other jobs so it's even more challenging now. Please dont feel rejected. Prepare as best you can and then move on.

The boss friends daughter might have interviewed before you or sometimes they change their minds all together and don't even keep the position. It's so hard not to feel rejected or demoralized but it's out of our control and has nothing to do with us. Although it never feels that way. Thank you for saying that 😊. I'm happy to share, and especially if I can help someone else.

The last job I interviewed, I'm not sure I really want, but I hope to at least receive an offer so I know that I did interview well and can take that experience and build on it for the next interview I might have.

I don't remember the circumstances but somehow I applied for a job once that I thought was FT but it was PT no benefits. Since I can't afford part time I couldn't take it but I didn't want to say oh sorry my bad never mind. So I continued with the interview. I did so much better than usual because I wasn't nervous since now there was no pressure.

I mean I dont recommend wasting someone's time by applying for things you dont want just for practice. But it was interesting to see how different my experience was and it shows that any interview is good practice and a chance to improve regardless of outcome. That's why I'm curious about this last one too. I'm probably not going to accept the offer, unless it's really insanely awesome.

I didn't know that going in though, so it certainly wasn't a waste of my time or theirs. Because of my social anxiety I freeze in interviews and literally can't think. Sometime I couldn't even tell you my name at the time. It's an agony few can understand if they haven't been through something similar. I had one job for many years that I applied to online and somehow interviewed successfully for.

I didn't know anyone there or anything about it really. To this day I think they just didn't have any other candidates but I'll never know. Any other job I got was because I knew someone who referred me. Word of mouth is how we find doctors, restaurants, repairmen, you name it. It's human nature no one wants to interview a total stranger. You're always taking a chance but I guess for the person hiring it's so much easier to say well so and so vouched for them even if that connection is very limited.

I don't have that bad of anxiety, but my mouth gets really dry, and I do sometimes stumble in my speech or can't get my thoughts out.

I need to come up with something like a script to go off of during interviews and change parts of it to suit the particular position. I have an event coming up in June that I have to speak for, a short introduction for the event. This I'm terrified of, even though there will be many others there with me and will support me.

So difficult!! I'm not going to say you'll be fine, even though you will be, cause I hate when people say that to me. What is it about public speaking that strikes such terror? For many years I was a librarian, and as part of that I had to sometimes teach a class to adults. Usually some computer technology like when ebooks first came out.

The classes were small and the people wanted to be there and wanted to see you succeed but oh what a struggle I had.

It seems like such a simple little thing. In desperation when I couldn't deal with the anxiety any more I forced myself to practice every word of my class script at home alone. I would feel ridiculous saying it to myself or in front of a mirror.

But once I said the introduction over and over again I was able to at least get through that much of it when I was up in front of the class. That bought me some time so I could calm down a little and settle into the teaching. I'll tell you I was mad that I even had to work so hard and practice so much for such a little thing but I had to do it. It's all I could think of. I have a friend who is on several dating sites.

She has met up with a few of them but things didn't last for various reasons. Then she came up trumps with her current fella who she has been with for around 18 months now. She seems very happy. She only connects with local people though so they meet up very early on. Thanks for sharing another success story! I'm finding all the encouragement of this site so wonderful.

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Your login details were not found on our system. Please try again. We've received too many login attempts. For security reasons please wait and try again in 10 minutes, or contact us using the help page. Thanks to Bluesmatch and after a period of less than 3 months I seem to have met my perfect partner.

I am now in a brilliant relationship beyond any of my expectations I have never ever felt so happy and alive in my life and she feels exactly the same. Thank you so much for your awesome site. Please could you cancel my subscription now, as I've just got engaged to a guy I met through your service :. Dear Blues Match, I'm replying to the email not because I'm unhappy about the message in any way, but because I think I should get you to take my message off the site as I'm getting married soon to someone I met through your good offices.

Hi there, The reason for cancelling my membership is that I am now in a very promising relationship with a man I met on Blues Match!

We started writing in October, met in November and we have been seeing each other ever since! Thank you! I would like to cancel my membership of Blues Match.

My reason for leaving is that I am to be married - to a girl I met through the site. So it works then! Dear Blues Match: I would like you to take me off your list, as the relationship that began through you is a lasting one.

We both feel grateful to your excellent service - thank you! Thank you, Bluesmatch. I have just cancelled my subscription because I have fallen in love with, and now asked to marry and she's agreed a wonderful woman I met through your website. I just thought that you might like to know that I got engaged on Friday to the first and only person I ever met through Blues Match.

Emma was the first person I'd ever met through any kind of internet dating and she's amazing. I proposed on Good Friday and she said yes! You are I'm afraid a victim of your own success.

I have met through BM a most delightful woman. Thank you. I think you are great. I've decided to cancel my membership because, on my third BM date, I met someone with whom I clicked almost immediately.

We've been seeing each other ever since, and I'd be crazy not to give her my full attention. Thank you for playing your part in bringing us together. I will not be renewing my membership because the second person I met up with through BM has proved to be my perfect match.

We cannot believe our luck! Thank you for working way above the level of my expectations! I would be grateful if you could remove my profile from the site as I have met the best guy ever through Blues Match! I found a great gal here and we are going to remove ourselves from the dating pool to concentrate on each other Thanks for putting us in touch.

Just to let you know, I'd like to cancel my subscription because I have found someone I really like via your website. I am dictating this email to Jen, another of your members, who has removed the need for continued membership. Couldn't be more delighted with the result! I was lured in by the cracking profile of someone who has subsequently remarketed himself to me as a mediocre dullard.

Nonetheless I find myself oddly satisfied and intend to spend the rest of my life with him Thank you so much! I hope everything continues wildly successful for you. Your service certainly has worked for me. I have met someone and we are very happy together and hope to be together for ever. So there we are. Dear BluesMatch, I have met some great people through your site and one particularly amazing man who I hope to be with for some time - so please cancel my membership, your job is done!

Deleting my profile as I have met a lovely lady through your site - all going well so far! Thank you BM. Joined early August. Spotted my future husband within an hour. Engaged 6 weeks later. Wedding booked for April. Thank you Bluesmatch! I am very happy to say that on my second date through you, I met someone who is particularly wonderful and we have been together for a year and a half now.

So a success story indeed! I wanted to request that you remove my details from the site as I am now married - I'm pleased to say I met my husband through your site! Thank you very much for connecting us! I have met the most wonderful lady via your site, and don't propose to pursue any more introductions.

Thank you very much! I'd like to cancel my subscription on Bluesmatch - I met a nice chap through you though. Still early days, but hopefully things will continue as positively as they've begun. Many Thanks! Please could you remove my profile? I have met someone wonderful from the site so I don't need to be on here.

I'd like to remove my profile and end my subscription as I met someone via your site and am now engaged to them. Many thanks! Thank you for your Valentine's message. I didn't need it, however, as I had already received a Valentine from the wonderful man whom I met through Blues Match and with whom I am still head over heels in love.

We are both very happy and grateful to Blues Match. I have met someone -- through BluesMatch, Thank You!! Met and now living with a wonderful lady met through the site.

I would be happy to return to the site if circumstances changed again but don't see that happening and would recommend it to others. I'm leaving because I've met someone through your site and would like to see where it leads.

Thank you for your kind help and I hope this new relationship of mine is fruitful and enduring. I've found someone really interesting through Blues Match so I'm dropping out - hopefully for ever. Good luck. This message is to let you know that I met a wonderful man through Blues Match back in May. Our relationship is flourishing! Thank you to everyone who is part of this venture.

I have met some very nice people on the site and have found a good friend. Long may it continue! I recommend the site to all friends who might appreciate meeting this kind of thoughtful person. Hi - I just wanted to say thank you. I met my fiance through BluesMatch. We got engaged earlier this year and will be married in June next year.

I should be grateful if you would cancel my membership - hopefully not needed now having met someone through the site. I've met the love of my life on this site, and I can't thank you enough.

Deleting my profile now, but for the happiest of reasons! I'm leaving because I'm delighted to say that I find myself in a lovely relationship and am therefore no longer looking for a partner. I've largely enjoyed the site. I'm very happy indeed with my time on the site and send my very best wishes with all involved in making it a success!

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I have met some very nice people on the site and have found a good friend. Strike up a conversation with your Lyft driver or barrista just to be a friendly human! Thanks for sharing another success story! Where applicable, you may also have a right to receive a machine-readable copy of your personal data. Too often, people look for love right after a traumatic, painful breakup and seek the wrong things i. It's all I could think of.

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